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 Author Nancy Beckons says, “Out of these stressful times I wanted to give readers a wildly entertaining read that is equally memorable. Importantly, I wanted to keep in mind my male readership as much as women. Afterall, it is a book about The Men of Match.com.”

In her two years on Match.com the author begins by introducing the Men of Match.com to see what they have to say literally in their search to find a soul mate. Match Men stories come to life with live dialogue running the gamut of funny, sad, intriguing, heart-warming and heart wrenching. At times they highlight the strange in all of us.  One match man says “Attracting someone really isn’t the hard part, but meeting your match certainly is.” Another confesses, “none of us are angels.” A third says, “I feel friendship should come first and then let things come naturally. I am looking for trust, communication and honesty.”

Nancy Beckons makes interesting cases for many of her findings. The author brings the reader into her encounters with Match Men as varied as the quick talking financial trader, a self-proclaimed Conch King, and a British Match Man living in France. Several of the author’s romantic adventures are dates with an Advice Seeker, a Tiki Bar owner at an exclusive Country Club, a Horse Trainer, and a player Match Man. There's many more!

The best, worst and funniest profiles are showcased!  The highlighted are one who pulls off a top-ten list of what women desire most from men, and a scam artist. The author shares with readers some of her own inspirations from cyber dating– about the Match Man who turns her into a poet and chuckling, "as corny as that sounds."

Readers can immerse themselves in a chapter about what men think women want versus what women really want. Age is brought to light that readers ponder. For example, how many online subscribers are telling the truth about their true age?  What do readers have to say about the author for taking sides?

For almost two years the author used her instincts well enough to avoid trouble until meeting Jack, her last Match Man.. Trapped inside her own hopeful thinking in finding a soul mate she unknowingly falls victim to the shallow charms of an abusive Match Man. A riveting self-disclosure is made to readers as the chapter unfolds. It is a jolting reminder that love is much more than the chemistry of a Match Man whose headliner reads, “Romancer waiting to be captured”. 

In closing, what does Author Nancy Beckons have to say about Soul Mates and that  elusive chemistry we are all searching for in a soul mate?  The author makes some interesting discoveries and concludes, “this two year journey has been quite a ride, and with the exception of my last Match Man, I would characterize it overall, positive. That my heart has remained open to love and that I have regained my true identity has amazed me.” A personal victory worth championing for her readers is revealed at the book’s closing!

Through all of her encounters and dates with Match Men, author Nancy Beckons has become a CyberDating Maven in helping people avoid some major pitfalls of online dating and become much more savy in the search for a soul mate.